This week’s episode of The Baggage Reclaim Classes is about how we drop hints about our discontent with somebody or one thing by making a press release with out utilizing phrases. I share widespread examples and clarify how individuals, most of the time, don’t even get the message we’re making an attempt to speak and that, finally, behaving passive-aggressively to make some extent creates extra issues than it solves.
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5 key subjects on this episode
- After we attempt to make a press release about one thing, we try to precise our emotions and place with out phrases. Placing apart after we do issues to precise the causes and other people we stand by, we use making a press release to try to precise our frustration, discontent and resentment about one thing with out saying ‘I’m not okay with that factor you stated or did’ or ‘I would like you to….’
- Let’s say that our buddy expresses one thing that upsets or offends us. Possibly we are saying one thing on the time, or perhaps we don’t. Within the following days and weeks, we really feel more and more irritated. When that buddy invitations us to their get together, our method of making an attempt to make a press release could be to say no. However does our absence on the get together truly talk this? Positive, we’re conscious of our ‘why’, however our buddy probably isn’t.
- There are occasions when our actions make a press release about what does and doesn’t work for us and what issues. That is after we are unsubtle in regards to the causes and values we stand for and we’re additionally not being performative.
- Boundaries are about greater than speaking our discontent about one thing. We’re our boundaries, so how we present up on the earth communicates what we stand for and what feels good and proper for us. We spend our time being scared of claiming no and having boundaries, not realising that we’re already saying no by what we’re saying sure to but in addition that we’re already speaking our boundaries by how we present up.
- If we are likely to analyse what others say and do, it may possibly appear believable that somebody would choose up on the assertion we’re making an attempt to make is that we analyse issues and draw conclusions. e.g. We’re texting with somebody and so they use three emojis on the finish of their message as an alternative of 5.
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